
Fr. Bob’s Homily – Fifth Sunday of Easter
In 1996, a 21-year-old man from Chicago named Peter suffered severe head injuries in a car accident, leaving him in a coma with significant brain damage. Doctors gave little hope for his survival or recovery.
But his fiancée, Linda, refused to give up. For three and a half months, she stayed by his side, speaking to him and caring for him. Eventually, Peter showed signs of life – first a slight movement, then a flutter of his eyelash.
Ignoring doctors, Linda quit her job and dedicated herself to Peter’s care full-time, even spending her savings on a swimming pool, hoping the water and sunlight might help revive him. After months of effort, Peter’s first word was a grunt, which later turned into clear speech.
Two years later, Peter walked down the aisle at Our Lady of Pompeii Church in Chicago with Linda, although aided by a walker, for their wedding. Their story captured universal attention. People from all over the world wrote letters to the couple, and celebrities called to congratulate them.
Peter went on to live a normal life, speaking clearly and walking without aid. He and Linda even had a child together.
Their story serves as a powerful example of what Jesus teaches us in today’s Gospel: “I give you a new commandment: love one another as I have loved you. This is how all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
In our world today, we need to rediscover the true power of love – the kind of love that Jesus exemplified. It’s not the superficial love we hear about in songs or see on TV, where love is often confused with lust. The word “love” has been overused and weakened, losing much of its real meaning.
Linda and Peter’s story illustrates the sacrificial love Jesus spoke of: a love that never tires of giving for the sake of another. It’s a love that gives until it hurts. It’s the love of a mother for her child. And this kind of love has immense power – a miraculous power, one that can bring people back from the brink of death. From hopeless sickness to perfect health.
On the evening news, we witness acts of injustice, violence and killings in the streets of our cities. The strange thing is, that if you were to ask the people involved in these actions what religion they follow, many would say they are Christians – meaning they are followers of Christ. But many Christians just do not imitate Christ, the one we are supposed to follow. They do not imitate Him in the way He treated others, or in the way He loved, even His enemies.
Imitating Christ doesn’t have to be difficult. Think about it: if, at any point in your life, you have done something that Jesus would have done, then you have already taken the first step. The rest is just a matter of practice. Like anything worth mastering, love takes time and repetition. Some of us need to practice being good.
What you’ve done once, you can do again and again. It’s that simple.
St. Augustine was once asked, “What does love look like?” As a Theologian, he could have offered a complex, intellectual answer. Instead, he gave a much more practical response: “Love has hands to help others. It has feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has ears to hear the sighs and the sorrows of others.”
My friends, that is what love looks like.